OK - then I grew up and discovered a few implements, say a hairbrush and scissors, and a stylist that knows what to do with your hair, a bit of feature enhancing flaw reducing makeup, a good photographer (my sister is one of those thank goodness) - and every once in a while I can get a snapshot that isn't completely unfortunate looking.......
And this is what I look like normally.....when one unnamed child comes up to me with a camera and flashes it three inches from my face.....but apparently I didn't mind...I'm still smiling